Find your clearing.

YOUR CAREER WAS BUILT BY WHO YOU WERE.

CLAIM YOUR NEXT MOVE FOR WHO YOU ARE.

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You have mastered the art of the climb.

You've got the talent to succeed, and the grit to endure.

But lately, your career feels like a treadmill - and you're running on empty.

Are you ready to stop "toughing it out" and start designing a life that finally feels like home?

Hi! I'm Alexis.

I know exactly how heavy the "shoulds" can feel. For 25 years I built a "successful" career, including a 14 year run at Google. But behind closed doors, I often struggled - and I eventually found myself chasing goals I'd long outgrown.

I became a coach because I worked with one and it changed my life. I regained a sense of freedom and purpose I thought I’d lost.

Now, I help people like you redefine what fulfillment means and create a path to get there.

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Your breakout starts here.

4 WAYS I HELP YOU CLIMB OUT OF THE FOG

What do you want? What are your wildest dreams? If you can imagine it, it's possible.

You don't have to do it "the hard way." I'd love to help you on your journey.

RECLAIM YOUR AGENCY

I help you stop "should"-ing all over yourself, so you can tune in to your own dreams and aspirations. I provide a compassionate space for you to sit with deeper questions and find your own answers.

MAP YOUR CORP MAZE

Learn from my 25 years of triumphs (and mistakes!) in the corporate world, so you can prevail at performance reviews, negotiations, or plan a "breakout" of your own (without burning bridges).

BURNOUT RECOVERY

Life doesn't have to be a constant struggle. If you're navigating burnout, I'll help you through. I'll also guide you in building skills and habits to live a more sustainable and satisfying life - both today and tomorrow.

PLANT YOUR NEXT MOVE

Let's figure out what it is you really want - and I'll give you the boost you need to start making moves toward it! I'll help you unleash your curiosity and creativity, so you can do whatever makes your heart sing.

I believe success is closer than you think. And I'm here and available to support you along the way.

Let's chat

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Resilience is a tool. Not the goal.

It feels like everyone lately is touting "resilience" as the one skill we all need.

Yes, we need resilience! It's true. We survived COVID, for goodness sake - we didn't leave our hidey holes for 2 years.

But resilience isn't a destination; it's the necessary, non-negotiable floor in your life. It’s the thing you need so you don't fall into the abyss, the foundation you pour when your whole world feels shaky.

Resilience keeps you on solid ground.

There were years where I was all resilience. I was tough and disciplined - and you better believe I got results. But looking back, I was also running on fumes, deeply lonely, and constantly on the brink of burnout. My resilience kept me from quitting, but it didn’t bring me joy. It was the armor I wore just to make it through the day.

I had to learn the hard way that a life built purely on resilience is just an efficient treadmill. You never fall off, but you're not actually going anywhere that lights you up, either.

That’s where passion and purpose come in.

If you'd like some help rekindling yours, I'd love to connect.

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Are you stuck?

4 TELLTALE SIGNS

Perhaps one of the most challenging aspects of getting unstuck is realizing you ARE "stuck" in the first place.

The thought that “I am feeling stuck” is often not a first-order realization. But there are a few key actions and “stuck” behaviors that act as signals that something is awry. Here are 4 main signals I look for, both in myself and with others, so we can uncover possible ways to get "unstuck."

Perfectionism

Overthinking, overworking and escapism are all coping mechanisms rooted in the fear that you won't do things "perfectly." But continued overwork and inaction exacerbates the problem - and gets you really stuck.

People Pleasing

We often joke about this coping behavior, where you avoid conflict in favor of acceptance and safety. Unfortunately, it muffles your own wants and needs, and tends to be a deeply rooted habit that can be difficult to break.

Emotional Reactivity

When explosive reactions and behaviors catch you by surprise, it's a sign you're holding resentment instead of addressing a problematic situation directly. It also makes it harder to actually address what's wrong.

Depletion

Having low spirits or low energy are often signals that you're “stuck” in a place where you are feeling underutilized, stifled or overworked. This is an early signal that your "stuck-ness" may be progressing into burnout.

These feelings and behaviors tend to start with an uncomfortable or unwanted situation that you don’t take action to resolve or change. Over time, your discomfort grows and festers, which makes it harder and harder to do anything about it. Eventually, you become overwhelmed with a sense that you can’t do anything to change the situation.

The good news? By summoning your courage and taking action about whatever is holding you back, you can make moves toward getting unstuck. I'd love to help you on that journey.

Let's talk

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FAQ

Hold on, Alexis. I built 5 AIs that guide me through everything I want to do already. What can you do that my AI army can't?

Wow, that's awesome! I use AI too. If it's getting you what you need, sounds like you've got everything covered.

I've learned that AI has makes life easier in all sorts of ways, but it also has limitations. The most important ones? Deep human connection, and the feeling I get from being truly heard. AI is not a person. No matter how much we can make it sound or respond like one, it's still a machine. Much of what I worked through in my own 3-year journey with a coach was how to truly feel and express my emotions - things AI certainly can't do today, and I question if it will ever be able to. To be clear, coaching isn't therapy and won't heal longstanding trauma, but in my own experience I got more out of working with a coach than I did with several therapists.If you'd like to try it out, sign up for a free, no pressure exploratory call with me. I'd love to hear about what's on your mind.

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